Self Esteem and Confidence - with the flick of mental switch
Emotional triggers controlling your life?
Everyone of us is packed full of emotional triggers.
A word, a look, a smell, anything can set them off.
Unfortunately, most of these triggers are negative ("You
idiot", "Why did you do that, fool", "You’re
ugly, fat, stupid, etc", "I can’t ", "I’m a
failure" and the list goes on and on).
Everything we do has an
emotional trigger. No matter how much you wish your thoughts and
actions were guided by pure logic and reason, it is far more likely
that your emotions are
actually the underlying cause for everything you do, think and say.
When You want to be in
control, it’s time to use The Second Trigger.
Our minds are overcrowded with
emotional triggers, switching on without our permission and, very
often, without our awareness of their presence.
Emotional triggers can ruin your life.
Everyone has emotional triggers that can dominate and ruin
their life ... But Now
you can regain control with The Second Trigger.
Other People Ruin Your Day
Your day started well but then your
spouse said or did something that annoyed you and “bam” an
emotional trigger has already ensured you are upset.
Then you hear something on the radio that really angers you
… or the kids behave in such a way that you find yourself
controlling a silent seethe. Every
minute you are awake, and even inside your nightly dreams, your
mind is turning your emotional triggers on and off, leaving you
exhausted and stressed.
Your boss sends you an
abrupt email, your customer is rude to you, your family doesn’t
understand you, your friends forgot to say something nice … and
you’re left carrying a lifetime of emotional baggage that does
nothing but weigh you down and deplete your
optional enjoyment of any and everything.
When you want your emotional triggers to stop ruining your life,
it’s time to use The Second Trigger.
Is it Time to Grow up?
triggers were created during your childhood before you were in
control of your life and now those same emotional triggers are
still controlling you.
As a child, your
individuality with its total freedom of thought, feeling and
imagination was “trimmed down” to “acceptable” standards by
whatever culture you grew up in. This trimming of your emotional
responses was usually achieved through taunting, punishment,
humiliation, shame and disapproval.
To a child, survival and
acceptance are one and the same thing, so you and all of us decided
that our “unacceptable” thoughts and feelings needed to be
buried deep inside of us where no one could see them.
You were taught certain thoughts and most feelings were “bad”
and “unacceptable” and “deserved punishment” so you tried to
make them disappear. But
your thoughts and feelings are a natural part of the individual who
is uniquely “You” and the deeper your
emotions are hidden, the stronger they become.
You have been caught in a dilemma
You have been caught in a dilemma - no-one wants to be considered
bad and unacceptable so, rather than expose yourself to outside
control, you and all of us created strong, inner emotional triggers
to set off our own internalised punishment.
You decided that “controlling” yourself with the same
sort of anger, humiliating remarks, taunting comments and general
sense of disapproval and disappointment that was so effective for
your initial teachers would somehow make you “acceptable”, and
maybe even loved.
Who is Pushing Your Buttons?
We all have many
emotional triggers, courtesy of our childhood, and every one of them
allows people and events to "push our buttons" so that we
sometimes respond in ways that we really wish we didn't. If
you've ever felt someone's words or actions make you instantly
angry, frightened or upset, you have just had someone trip one of
your emotional triggers.
With the help of The Second Trigger you can take back control of your life and your reactions so
that you are always aware that "you
have a choice" to decide how you will react.
Don't let your days be dominated by your past. Get your Second
Second Trigger revitalises
your world by establishing a conscious awareness in
your subconscious responses. Don’t let your past turn you into someone you don’t want
to be. Through the
simple, yet powerful, positive visualisations contained in The
you will learn to make
your own decisions based on the facts, including knowledge of how
your negative inhibitors are trying to turn you away from your
most beneficial responses.
The Master Switch
You can create a master switch in your
own mind that will override every hidden
trigger and inform you whenever your emotional triggers are
trying to take control over you.
You can listen to The Second Trigger
and learn that “You have a choice” to accept a beneficial
emotional trigger or negate any negative emotional trigger.
You can take back control of your life.
You can choose to be peaceful, powerful and happy.
let strangers determine how you will react.
Don’t let the most negative statements and actions from
your childhood manipulate your adult life.
Be who you want to be.
Live the life you want to live and start doing it NOW
by listening to The Second Trigger and ensuring
your mind belongs to you and not your emotional triggers.
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